A needed Friend

Everyone experience a time of loneliness. We search for someone to love, … ( and blab blab, blab, touchy feeling stuff.) It is ok to experience loneliness for weeks, months or even years. Speaking from personal experiences, I learned a lot about my wants, and needs. I learned to appreciate the importance of being myself in a cooker-cutter society. I have a more profound appreciation for silence, peace, nature, music, art. (The list goes on). My relationship among my family have grown.  My sisters and I appreciate each other company more as young adults. Perhaps, realizing that family is always there in the time of need. Nonetheless, my time of loneliness taught me the weirdest lesson. It was that I needed friends.  I needed someone who would listen to my crazy ideas. A person that would not mind clubbing. Perhaps, an unattractive friend, so I can reap the benefits of picking up women (JK, I am not a clubbing guy). The point is that a man/ woman can discovered a lot during lonely times, but it means nothing if he or she cannot share their experience with someone.

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